Safety Tips for Online Dating Members



Posted: Monday, April 30, 2007

by
Shore Network Connections, LLC

Atlantic City, NJ – Recently, the online dating industry has taken a hit concerning the safety of its members. A New Jersey police officer offers important online dating tips that can help online dating members keep themselves safe.

Police Officer Kenneth Bachman from Egg Harbor Township, NJ is very familiar with the online dating industry. Bachman is an eight year veteran of the Burlington County Sheriffs Office in Mount Holly, NJ. In April of last year, Bachman started a company called Shore Network Connections, LLC. Shore Network Connections is host to one of the only online dating websites on the internet dedicated solely to the men and women behind the badge. Additionally, Bachman has had the opportunity to investigate cases involving online predators.

Bachman offers some general rules that must be followed when utilizing an online dating website. Fist, never expose your personal information such as your name,address,phone number,etc to any other members until you get to know the person you are dealing with better. This is to insure your overall safety and well being. Generally most people online are basically harmless and sincere, but the internet does possess its' share of bad characters. So act appropriately and be smart and cautious when dealing with people online. Second, be careful when choosing your online name. Pick a neutral gender name if you don't wish to invite uninvited sexual advances online or sexual innuendo. However if your intention is to invite advances from the sexes, then be prepared for the potential deluge of advances. Third,

be very careful when meeting in person. When you feel the time is right, and meeting in person is appropriate, always meet in a public place with a group of friends. Never meet the person for the first time by yourself. By having your friends this presents a secure picture of support. If this person is worth it they will honor your request. Lastly, trust your instincts.

If your instincts are trying to inform you that something may be wrong, listen to them. If you are uncomfortable for any reason then this could be a sign to steer clear. If this person isn't your type then let them know immediately. Remember there are all types of people and personalities online and people emotions should be respected.

These are just a few simple, but important rules to keep your online dating experience safe. There are also screening services on the market that offer background investigations on your date. You may have to spend a few dollars for the service, but you can be assured of your safety. Shore Network Connections LLC, a company whose ventures also include BadgeVacations.com, offering discounted travel rates to emergency service personnel and TheBadge.org, a singles community for Emergency Services Personnel received the “Online Safety Award" in 2006.

For More Information Contact:

Kenneth J. Bachman

(609) 338-4158

http://www.thebadge.org

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